Well, it's been 3 days I have silently pondered over this nasty act which we call as RAPE.
When we hear it, we all being men or women, get shivers in our spines.
Even when a man sitting next to us on a bus, or on the train looks at us, tries to slide his hand on us women,
we get outraged. But, yes decent men always get a benefit of doubt.
Why? Why should men get a benefit of doubt when the woman herself is taking precautions to maintain distance, is being well mannered and just hopping on and off a public vehicle. Why should a dirty hand touch you (yuck, totally yuck) when you are wearing half sleeve, full pants or salwar, just because now we don't wear a dupatta? Anyway, here is some personal inside and thoughts which can be debated/
1. It's not only the government. Government is busy minting money, the police is working ass out and cannot be deployed at spooky places all the time expecting woman to come there and needing protection.
2. Any industry, being news and bollywood should ensure that any B grade movie is Banned. News channels should not send good looking females, or actually females post 6pm to any sight for a shoot unless they have a gunman as a company security guard. High rule, just don't send.
3. Women should understand that the way some of us don't chop onions as they leak tear gas, similarly, we should refrain from doing a lot of things these days. The world is worst, few years back I thought it to be turning bad. But now, it's gone gutters. God is hiding his face as even he thinks to himself, what happened?
4. Post 5 we should wear nothing above capris, and nothing below neck line, provided you have 2-3 male friends accompanying you.
5. It is something to think about? Can it stop? No. Will things change? No.
Reason I say that
a. No humanity in those folks who wish to satify the urge.
b. It's a nasty game for them.
c. They don't understand the theorem of high level Karma.
d. Basically, waste of human life is them.
e. Government will maximum sympathize, NO Patil, NO Delhi Govt can do anything. Sooner we accept, better for our children and sisters.
KEEP THIS WITH YOU ALWAYS
1. PROACTIVENESS
2. PEPPER OR DEO SPRAY
3. CHILL FLAKES OR POWDER
4. COMB
5. KEEP HANDS FREE
6. DONT BE ON THE PHONE WHILE OUT OF OFFICE OR HOME OR SCHOOL/COLLEGE
7. USE SAFETY APPS AND NOT WHATSAPP
8. DROP AND PICK THE CHILD BY SELF, NO SERVANTS OR MAIDS ALLOWED. NO MATTER YOU EARN BILLIONS A YEAR. AS YOU WILL NOT SLEEP EVER IF ANYTHING GOES WRONG.
9. SAVE NEAR BY POLICE STATION NUMBERS
10. WATCH YOUTUBE - AND UNDERSTAND SELF DEFENSE TECHNIQUES
11. IN INDIA - I wondered people do not smile at each other. Now I know why?
12. JUST SLAP THE MAN AND GIVE NO FREAKING BENEFIT OF DOUBT OR JUST SHOUT BAD UPON. (learnt this abroad)
When we hear it, we all being men or women, get shivers in our spines.
Even when a man sitting next to us on a bus, or on the train looks at us, tries to slide his hand on us women,
we get outraged. But, yes decent men always get a benefit of doubt.
Why? Why should men get a benefit of doubt when the woman herself is taking precautions to maintain distance, is being well mannered and just hopping on and off a public vehicle. Why should a dirty hand touch you (yuck, totally yuck) when you are wearing half sleeve, full pants or salwar, just because now we don't wear a dupatta? Anyway, here is some personal inside and thoughts which can be debated/
1. It's not only the government. Government is busy minting money, the police is working ass out and cannot be deployed at spooky places all the time expecting woman to come there and needing protection.
2. Any industry, being news and bollywood should ensure that any B grade movie is Banned. News channels should not send good looking females, or actually females post 6pm to any sight for a shoot unless they have a gunman as a company security guard. High rule, just don't send.
3. Women should understand that the way some of us don't chop onions as they leak tear gas, similarly, we should refrain from doing a lot of things these days. The world is worst, few years back I thought it to be turning bad. But now, it's gone gutters. God is hiding his face as even he thinks to himself, what happened?
4. Post 5 we should wear nothing above capris, and nothing below neck line, provided you have 2-3 male friends accompanying you.
5. It is something to think about? Can it stop? No. Will things change? No.
Reason I say that
a. No humanity in those folks who wish to satify the urge.
b. It's a nasty game for them.
c. They don't understand the theorem of high level Karma.
d. Basically, waste of human life is them.
e. Government will maximum sympathize, NO Patil, NO Delhi Govt can do anything. Sooner we accept, better for our children and sisters.
KEEP THIS WITH YOU ALWAYS
1. PROACTIVENESS
2. PEPPER OR DEO SPRAY
3. CHILL FLAKES OR POWDER
4. COMB
5. KEEP HANDS FREE
6. DONT BE ON THE PHONE WHILE OUT OF OFFICE OR HOME OR SCHOOL/COLLEGE
7. USE SAFETY APPS AND NOT WHATSAPP
8. DROP AND PICK THE CHILD BY SELF, NO SERVANTS OR MAIDS ALLOWED. NO MATTER YOU EARN BILLIONS A YEAR. AS YOU WILL NOT SLEEP EVER IF ANYTHING GOES WRONG.
9. SAVE NEAR BY POLICE STATION NUMBERS
10. WATCH YOUTUBE - AND UNDERSTAND SELF DEFENSE TECHNIQUES
11. IN INDIA - I wondered people do not smile at each other. Now I know why?
12. JUST SLAP THE MAN AND GIVE NO FREAKING BENEFIT OF DOUBT OR JUST SHOUT BAD UPON. (learnt this abroad)
