I am not saying, we go closer to those nasty, nagging, irritating souls,
I am not saying we build a relation with them all over again,
Nor am I am saying we treat them as family or so called BEST Friends;
We all know they will not change.
But the question is, did we? Do we? Shall we? If the answer is NO, there will nothing for you to learn forward. You will learn being there just a little over yesterday.
The question can be, what is in the relation that we need to protect at the same time ensuring we need to keep our self esteem and protect our energies. Like coal and gas, it depletes, it needs to be conserved, the more you use for renewal of energies, the more you will get back. The more you use for small folks (those ones), the more we are battling to save our lives and start running away from them.
Being vigilant and disciplined, how they treat us is very important. we are not rising our ego to sky rocketing standards, we are not inflating our concept of being Super Humans as we so called know it all. We are just behind humble, we are being full of humility and gratitude for being needed. For being asked, for being the Google for others.
May be due to their ego, they may not say we need you, we like being with you. But because you are so and so, they feel your importance, they are scared to lose you, let you go away.
Yes, we also have the rights to decide who is a donkey and who is the Lion. There could be lack of power of differentiation in most of us, but once we have it, it is like swearing in that you will never give up on your principles; which could be any one you wish to pick on.
Karma theory says, people come and people go, some stay, some misuse you and run off, some appear when you are being ill treated and become your rescuers.
You need to be aware if not confused. Just realize what is happening and the rest will be taken care of.
Can we ask, if we can tell the other person, this is what I expect from you, this is how I need you? If you could be like this. Can we have the courage? Can we use our Wise Mind.
Firstly, do we need to ask? Can we not change ourselves, before we are 50 and realize, oh what was I doing, I realized life now!!!
It is just bull shit. It is daily experience. It something where we can contemplate and write memories, write our understandings.
It is an amazing feeling when you write, when you express, when you have ideas.
Finally, if we could treat the humans around us as those creations which are exactly like us and not start Judging them for what you perceive them to be. We do not have to look back, we just treat them the way they are, life becomes simpler. We love making it complicated
Wish we all could just be and just passionately keep going back to what we always Like. Ensuring that like doesn't take a toll on others lives or livings. Adjustment in this worldly space is required day in and day out. Why? Because, someone else will adjust for you too, and trust me he or she will.
I can say this, as I hold an old woman's hand to cross the road, someone else is helping my disabled mother to cross the road too.
It is give and take. The more you give, it is easier to take else you become this beggar who is just dressed in elite style and driving an expensive car using a handy Smartphone.
Do not run, just be. Just breathe, Just let go, forgive as that will automatically erase your bad memories.
Remember to be aware. By jumping into wrong decisions is not taking risk, without evaluation taking a leap is not risk, its foolishness.
When you know you have nothing to lose, when you know you have to prove your metal, that is called the Risk.
Risk is already evaluated and hence is it called a risk. If you do not know anything about your next next or you are not planned, you may be a stray dog barking away at crows, while the World will come back and roar at you.
I am not saying we build a relation with them all over again,
Nor am I am saying we treat them as family or so called BEST Friends;
We all know they will not change.
But the question is, did we? Do we? Shall we? If the answer is NO, there will nothing for you to learn forward. You will learn being there just a little over yesterday.
The question can be, what is in the relation that we need to protect at the same time ensuring we need to keep our self esteem and protect our energies. Like coal and gas, it depletes, it needs to be conserved, the more you use for renewal of energies, the more you will get back. The more you use for small folks (those ones), the more we are battling to save our lives and start running away from them.
Being vigilant and disciplined, how they treat us is very important. we are not rising our ego to sky rocketing standards, we are not inflating our concept of being Super Humans as we so called know it all. We are just behind humble, we are being full of humility and gratitude for being needed. For being asked, for being the Google for others.
May be due to their ego, they may not say we need you, we like being with you. But because you are so and so, they feel your importance, they are scared to lose you, let you go away.
Yes, we also have the rights to decide who is a donkey and who is the Lion. There could be lack of power of differentiation in most of us, but once we have it, it is like swearing in that you will never give up on your principles; which could be any one you wish to pick on.
Karma theory says, people come and people go, some stay, some misuse you and run off, some appear when you are being ill treated and become your rescuers.
You need to be aware if not confused. Just realize what is happening and the rest will be taken care of.
Can we ask, if we can tell the other person, this is what I expect from you, this is how I need you? If you could be like this. Can we have the courage? Can we use our Wise Mind.
Firstly, do we need to ask? Can we not change ourselves, before we are 50 and realize, oh what was I doing, I realized life now!!!
It is just bull shit. It is daily experience. It something where we can contemplate and write memories, write our understandings.
It is an amazing feeling when you write, when you express, when you have ideas.
Finally, if we could treat the humans around us as those creations which are exactly like us and not start Judging them for what you perceive them to be. We do not have to look back, we just treat them the way they are, life becomes simpler. We love making it complicated
Wish we all could just be and just passionately keep going back to what we always Like. Ensuring that like doesn't take a toll on others lives or livings. Adjustment in this worldly space is required day in and day out. Why? Because, someone else will adjust for you too, and trust me he or she will.
I can say this, as I hold an old woman's hand to cross the road, someone else is helping my disabled mother to cross the road too.
It is give and take. The more you give, it is easier to take else you become this beggar who is just dressed in elite style and driving an expensive car using a handy Smartphone.
Do not run, just be. Just breathe, Just let go, forgive as that will automatically erase your bad memories.
Remember to be aware. By jumping into wrong decisions is not taking risk, without evaluation taking a leap is not risk, its foolishness.
When you know you have nothing to lose, when you know you have to prove your metal, that is called the Risk.
Risk is already evaluated and hence is it called a risk. If you do not know anything about your next next or you are not planned, you may be a stray dog barking away at crows, while the World will come back and roar at you.
Nice Thought! A good topic to write on… Especially in times where seeds of hatred, nepotism, revenge are deeply sown in the minds of humans.
ReplyDeleteOne can very well relate our life to ‘Accounts’. In accounts, we know that there is an opening balance, to which there is some addition / deletion during the financial year and at the end of the year we have a closing balance, which becomes the opening balance of next year. Similarly, in life, we are born with an opening balance of ‘Karma’, to which either there is accretion / depletion of ‘Karma’ during our life, and finally, when we die, we carry forward the closing ‘karma’ to next birth!
Very well written blog!
Nice Thought! A good topic to write on… Especially in times where seeds of hatred, nepotism, revenge are deeply sown in the minds of humans.
ReplyDeleteOne can very well relate our life to ‘Accounts’. In accounts, we know that there is an opening balance, to which there is some addition / deletion during the financial year and at the end of the year we have a closing balance, which becomes the opening balance of next year. Similarly, in life, we are born with an opening balance of ‘Karma’, to which either there is accretion / depletion of ‘Karma’ during our life, and finally, when we die, we carry forward the closing ‘karma’ to next birth!
Very well written blog!